Validation...

I was the legal one - that was enough for me. It was SHE

I had the ring, I was with HE on occasions, I appear on application forms, name it. Siguro that validated me. So really, while it hurts to know that HE has other people in his life, so long as I assert that I am the wife, the first - I'm good. SHE continued.

How do you do that? ME asked.

Do what? SHE

Be so cool about everything? ME

I am not cool about everything. You have no idea what my inner struggles are - all of them were bordering crazy. SHE

And yet you don't snap. ME

Because I'm a mother - it's that simple. I have my kids to think of. SHE said.

ME smiled.

Look, it's just the validation that I'm still recognized as the wife - that's really what I aim for. Yung para lang alam mo kung san ka lulugar - sa lahat kasi ng ayaw ko eh yung binabastos yung karapatan ko bilang asawa pa rin. SHE

F*ck my husband all you want pero don't you dare attack my personality or tell me that I am not enough for my husband. Eh anu kung mas maganda regalo ni HE sayo? O mas mahal? O mas marami? Really, I can buy what I want and if that entices you to have s*x with HE or makes you feel that you're more loved, go ahead and think that. I will not rain on your parade. SHE added.

And that applied to ME when HE and ME were together pa? ME finally said.

Oo naman - why should you be an exception? SHE laughed.. Pero we both know that we passed that and moved into a more mature - if not meaningful - co-existence. You knew your place Kaloy, nobody had told you what to do or how to act but you carried yourself very well. SHE

That's the alcohol talking na ata. ME laughed.

No! Alam mo, gusto ko i-refer sa'yo si J para maturuan mo. J is clearly an amateur on the whole dynamics of being the third wheel. SHE

Don't say bad words! ME said.

We both laughed.

I hate it. SHE

What? ME

That HE is gay - your gay. SHE

I think I am going to be perpetually attracted to you gay men. SHE

Loka - why would you be attracted to me. ME

SHE grinned.

No! Tumigil ka - you just had too many vodka. ME was screaming.

You haven't done it before with a girl di ba? SHE said, looking straight at me.

I swear I'm gonna scream RAPE! ME said.

SHE stood up.

ME stood up.

SHE move towards ME.

ME ran straight to the balcony and locked the door.

Ayan na ako. SHE teased.

NO! RAPE! Go away! ME said laughing.

Hindi na, I'm going to behave na. SHE

You promise? ME

Yes! SHE.

ME let go of the door.

I have never seen this side of you! ME managed to say in between laughs.

Now I know how to make you run. SHE was laughing too.

We both sat on the balcony floor.

Thank you. ME said while staring at the skies. I haven't laughed this heartily until now.

SHE reached for my hand and squeezed it.

ME squeezed it back.

7 things on the Holidays

Because of the lack of HE-ME-SHE drama (I guess that's a good thing), here's a vanity post of all-about-ME. I apologize.

1. I hydrated for the Holidays. LOL! Pero wala naman nagbago. 

2. Feasted on Pinapaitan breakfast for three days. I love it! And it was made more special as my tito would really cook it before going to work.

3. Played Monopoly again with my family after [X] years. My brother-in-law hit the jackpot when three (3) of us landed on his estate (with a hotel!). Talk about LUCK!

4. That's Dinakdakan - I promise to learn how to make it this year. Cross-fingers.

5. I bike every morning going to the bukid. Its a good 45-minute paddling and I took in as much fresh air as I can. Sadly, my stash of it is already depleted after a day back in the Metro - 'di kinaya..

6. That is what I wake up to in the bukid everyday. The smell of freshly cut palay is heavenly.

7. My holiday duty comprised of barbecuing and barbecuing. LOL! At talagang nag-pose ako and I'm not that white! At tapos na ako diyan mag-barbeque, mga re-heat lang yang nkikita diyan - hehehe.

How did your holidays go?

-o0o-

Steady lang muna ako.

I'd like to enjoy dating and I'm too guarded I guess (for now) to enter into something more.

Here's to an easy, breezy, beautiful cover girl - err - 2013!